How to Actually Exercise More Regularly (Without Forcing Yourself to Become a Gym Rat)
How to Actually Exercise More Regularly (Without Forcing Yourself to Become a Gym Rat)
I’ll be honest. I used to be the master of false starts when it came to exercise. I’d get that wave of motivation on Sunday night, write out a full workout plan, even buy new sneakers. Monday would go fine. Maybe Tuesday too. By Wednesday? My muscles hurt, work got hectic, and Netflix sounded way more appealing than the treadmill.
I once paid for a year-long gym membership and went… wait for it… four times. Every time I saw that charge hit my bank account, I told myself next month will be different. But it never was. That “all or nothing” approach burned me out before I even had the chance to see progress.
What changed everything wasn’t some huge life shift. Rethinking what “exercise” actually looked like is a game changer. One day I skipped the gym and just went for a walk while listening to my favorite podcast. It felt easy. Almost too easy. But the next day I did it again. And then I added a few stretches before bed. Soon, moving my body wasn’t this giant, overwhelming task anymore. It was just… part of my day.
That’s when I realized: consistency beats intensity every time. You don’t need to become a fitness influencer. You just need realistic, repeatable ways to move your body.
1. Rethink What “Exercise” Means
When most people think of exercise, they picture the gym: heavy weights, treadmills, sweat dripping off their chin. But exercise is simply intentional movement. That means walking your dog counts. Gardening counts. Even playing tag with your kids counts. When you broaden the definition, you take away the mental block that exercise has to be hard or structured to “count.” The truth is, your body doesn’t care whether your heart rate goes up from a treadmill run or from dancing around the living room. All it knows is that you moved. Shifting your mindset here removes the perfectionism that keeps people from starting at all.
2. Attach Movement to Habits You Already Have
One of the biggest challenges with exercising regularly is remembering to do it. That’s where “habit stacking” comes in. Instead of carving out a whole new part of your day, add movement to something you already do.
For example:
While brushing your teeth, do calf raises.
Waiting for your coffee to brew? Do a quick wall sit.
Every time you check your email, stand up and stretch.
Linking movement to existing habits means you don’t have to rely on motivation. You’re just upgrading something that’s already in your routine.
3. Start Smaller Than You Think You Should
This might be the most underrated strategy. Most people set huge goals: 45 minute workouts, 5 days a week, strict routines. That’s setting yourself up to fail because it requires too much willpower from the start. Instead, shrink your goal to something laughably small. Ten push-ups. Five minutes of yoga. A walk to the end of the street. It may not sound like much, but it creates momentum. Once your body and brain get used to showing up daily, you’ll naturally want to add more. Think of it like planting seeds. They are small at first, but they eventually grow roots.
4. Make It Fun (Seriously)
Here’s the hard truth: you’re never going to stick with something you hate. If running feels like punishment, don’t force yourself to be a runner. The best form of exercise is the one you’ll actually do. Experiment until you find something enjoyable: maybe that’s boxing, roller skating, hiking, or dance classes. It could even be something non-traditional, like VR games or TikTok dance trends. When you look forward to the activity, consistency becomes natural. Fun is a sustainability hack.
5. Use the “Bare Minimum” Rule
We all have those days when we’re exhausted, stressed, or just not feeling it. The “bare minimum” rule says: instead of skipping entirely, commit to the smallest possible version.
Examples:
Instead of a 30-minute workout, do 5 minutes of stretching.
Instead of a 3-mile run, walk around the block once.
Instead of weights, do one set of push-ups.
What happens is magical: once you start, you often keep going. But even if you don’t, you’ve still honored your commitment to yourself, which builds trust and consistency.
6. Track Progress in a Way That Motivates You
Tracking matters because progress is often invisible day to day. Some people love tech: Fitbits, Apple Watches, or apps that count steps. Others prefer low-tech solutions like marking an “X” on a calendar. The method doesn’t matter, because what matters is finding a way to celebrate progress. When you see your streak build up, or your step count go higher, it creates a little dopamine hit that keeps you going. Tracking also makes it easier to look back and realize how far you’ve come, which is the ultimate motivation.
7. Remember the Why
At some point, motivation will dip — that’s normal. The thing that gets you through those dips is your why. Maybe it’s having more energy for your kids. Maybe it’s managing stress so you don’t snap at people. Maybe it’s wanting to feel strong as you age. Whatever it is, keep that reason front and center. Write it on a sticky note, put it on your phone background, or remind yourself before every workout. Exercise is less about looking a certain way and more about investing in your future self.
Here’s the truth: building a regular exercise habit doesn’t happen overnight. It’s not about waking up tomorrow and magically becoming the type of person who loves 5 a.m. workouts. It’s about choosing one small, realistic action today — and then repeating it often enough that it starts to feel natural.
So, here’s my challenge for you: pick just one of the seven tips and put it into practice this week. Maybe that’s attaching a set of squats to your morning coffee, or finally giving yourself permission to count a walk as “real” exercise. Whatever you choose, write it down, commit to it, and notice how it makes you feel.
Then tell someone. Known that accountability changes everything. Drop your plan in the comments (if you have one), share this blog with a friend who wants to get moving again, or even tag me when you take action. The more we talk about exercise as something doable and human (instead of intimidating or perfect), the easier it becomes to stick with it. You don’t have to overhaul your life. You just have to start. Future you will be so glad you did.
Also, answer these three questions, if you want":
What’s the biggest hurdle that keeps you from exercising regularly?
Which of these tips feels easiest for you to start with right now?
Do you already have a “fun” form of movement you love, or are you still searching for one?
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